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Fix anxiety fast without talking about the past
Fix anxiety fast without revealing secrets or pouring your heart out to a stranger using this great method. Therapy can be done without you having to speak at all in a style known as content-free. This baffles traditional talk therapists because it takes away their main strategy but for a hypnotherapist who knows that they're doing, it makes everything easier for you and them. Learn more and contact me through www.1stdrive.com/how-to-overcome-driving-anxiety/
Chapters:
0:00 - Intro
0:16 - Therapy without dialogue
1:06 - Therapy in silence works better
151 client intake video
1:43 - No details needed
2:13 - Verbalising
3:13 - Why I don't record sessions
4:21 - It's like teaching people to drive...
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Fear of driving won't go? This could be why
Просмотров 38619 часов назад
If your fear of driving won't go away even after therapy, it's often because of this classic mistake. If you don't drive after a session because you fear the problem may still be there then you're making a whole new problem which makes your situation worse than ever! Learn more and contact me for help at www.1stdrive.com/how-to-overcome-driving-anxiety/. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 0:14 - The proble...
How anxiety starts years before you notice it...
Просмотров 47314 дней назад
Anxiety starts many years before you first experience it. It's often a problem you've had for years in many different guises so a fear of being bullied at school may become insomnia then driving anxiety. How the problem shows often has no link at all to how it began which is why it can be difficult to trace its roots. Learn more about how it starts in this video ruclips.net/video/hFLwYi5ttwE/ви...
Why CBT doesn't work (even when it does!)
Просмотров 28621 день назад
Why CBT doesn't work is simple - it works on the wrong things in the wrong place! There is no point scoring yourself on anxiety charts and keeping a diary of how you feel because those are all conscious thoughts about symptoms. To overcome anxiety and other issues you must access your subconscious mind and find the root cause of the problem. Learn more and contact me at www.1stdrive.com/cbt-for...
Physical symptoms of driving anxiety
Просмотров 31628 дней назад
Physical symptoms of driving anxiety can be worrying but are often nothing more than a side-effect of anxiety. ALWAYS get these checked by a doctor before working with a therapist but in most cases, they'll say there is nothing wrong with you and that's when it's time to see a hypnotherapist. Learn more and contact me at www.1stdrive.com/eyesight-and-driving-anxiety/ Common symptoms my clients ...
Anxiety mistakes - Why you can't find the solution anywhere
Просмотров 2 тыс.Месяц назад
Here's one of the most common anxiety mistakes therapists and clients make. It's why people get stuck in therapy sessions for years with no improvements, often ending up feeling worse than when they began. Here's my Night Train In The Rain video that I mentioned. ruclips.net/video/fscvwXPr5qY/видео.html and you can learn more about why therapy can fail here www.1stdrive.com/when-therapy-doesnt-...
Triggers for anxiety when driving
Просмотров 364Месяц назад
Working on triggers for your driving anxiety won't fix it. Many therapists, especially those promoting exposure therapy, make the mistake of focusing on triggers which makes your problems worse. The anchor (the root cause) of your problem is what you must focus on to get a result. Learn more and contact me through www.1stdrive.com/how-to-overcome-driving-anxiety/ Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 0:17 - W...
How to stop panic attacks and anxiety when driving
Просмотров 843Месяц назад
How to stop panic attacks and anxiety when driving - a complete guide to what works and what doesn't. Don't waste years with driving lessons, CBT, counselling and therapies that achieve nothing because they focus on symptoms and not the root cause. Whether you fear flying, heights, open spaces or whatever, the same things apply and doing what I say in this video helps you to overcome your fear ...
Panic attacks while driving on interstate highways - gone!
Просмотров 449Месяц назад
Panic attacks while driving on interstate highways stopped this client's travel plans. After watching my videos he drove a 2000-mile trip to Florida without anxiety. Learn more and contact me to overcome your fear of driving www.1stdrive.com/how-to-overcome-driving-anxiety/ ► See all of my videos on driving anxiety www.youtube.com/@1stdrive/ ► Results and testimonials www.1stdrive.com/driving-a...
Your driving anxiety questions answered
Просмотров 3412 месяца назад
I answer questions about driving anxiety that viewers have left on my videos. What causes a fear of motorway driving? Why are you scared of driving downhill? How did someone's windscreen wipers stopping working in heavy rain leave them with a fear of driving? I answer of all those questions and more, along with useful hints and tips to overcome driving anxiety. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 0:37 - Fea...
Failed therapy - did your therapist make this mistake?
Просмотров 2062 месяца назад
Failed therapy can leave you feeling like there's no hope. Don't worry, it's often just because your therapist was a numbskull! Let me explain what so many therapists do wrong, which you may not even be aware of if you're a client. Therapy doesn't work for everyone and I've listed many of the common reasons for failure here www.1stdrive.com/when-therapy-doesnt-work/ In case you're wondering why...
Fix anxiety fast
Просмотров 7352 месяца назад
Fix anxiety fast by doing this one thing which most people get wrong. If you ignore this or skip through the video looking for a quick answer then you are proving what I say in the video! Stop rushing from one solution to another, slow down and you will fix your anxiety faster. Learn more and contact me for help at www.1stdrive.com/how-to-overcome-driving-anxiety/ Fixing anxiety fast isn't alwa...
How to release anxiety from driving
Просмотров 3552 месяца назад
Driving anxiety is not always caused by a single event in your childhood. It can often be caused by cumulative trauma; a buildup of events over time. In this video, I explain the difference between these two causes of driving anxiety. For help overcoming your fear of driving contact me through www.1stdrive.com/how-to-overcome-driving-anxiety/ Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 0:20 - An event from the past...
Why my driving anxiety won't go away
Просмотров 4342 месяца назад
This is why your anxiety won't go away, even if you've done hypnosis and all sorts of therapy. The thoughts you have affect your feelings and your feelings affect your actions. This is the triangle of anxiety and you must change your thoughts to get anywhere. Positive thinking alone will not work because your mind doesn't understand it, you must list the benefits you'll gain and imagine them ha...
Overthinking and anxiety when driving
Просмотров 6183 месяца назад
Overthinking and anxiety go hand in hand. While overcoming anxiety can involve subconscious work in hypnotherapy, it's not always about releasing a dark event from your childhood. If you stop overthinking you will stop feeling anxious and are free to enjoy your life. Here's the clip I mentioned about Robocop to show how overthinking causes your thoughts to become screwed up ruclips.net/video/dk...
Panic attacks driving
Просмотров 6843 месяца назад
Panic attacks driving
Exposure therapy doesn't work for driving anxiety
Просмотров 4583 месяца назад
Exposure therapy doesn't work for driving anxiety
Fear of open spaces when driving
Просмотров 7133 месяца назад
Fear of open spaces when driving
How to fix driving anxiety
Просмотров 7553 месяца назад
How to fix driving anxiety
Where driving anxiety comes from
Просмотров 2444 месяца назад
Where driving anxiety comes from
Driving at night in heavy fog, rain and wind over Dartmoor
Просмотров 2834 месяца назад
Driving at night in heavy fog, rain and wind over Dartmoor
Why anxiety happens when driving
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.4 месяца назад
Why anxiety happens when driving
Why is therapy so expensive?
Просмотров 2364 месяца назад
Why is therapy so expensive?
Common causes of anxiety when driving
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Common causes of anxiety when driving
Driving anxiety on highways
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Driving anxiety on highways
City centre driving anxiety
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City centre driving anxiety
Fear of driving at night
Просмотров 8655 месяцев назад
Fear of driving at night
Common mistakes overcoming anxiety
Просмотров 2495 месяцев назад
Common mistakes overcoming anxiety
Best dashcam 2024 - a £75 camera from 2018!
Просмотров 2485 месяцев назад
Best dashcam 2024 - a £75 camera from 2018!
Anxiety keeps coming back
Просмотров 3515 месяцев назад
Anxiety keeps coming back

Комментарии

  • @skiddysm
    @skiddysm День назад

    I get bad work anxiety but I always think about my first job and how no job can be even that bad I instantly get better

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive 20 часов назад

      That's what I do and it works well. I think back to times I've been in tricky situations and how what I have now is far better. It's all about perception.

  • @heikeconroy8749
    @heikeconroy8749 День назад

    Wow, I have just read about that " silence" Hypnotherapy and here you are talking and giving advice about it...Synchronicity? Coincidence?,,,,,I just love the way you teach Paul and you always seem to know the newest when it comes to Psychology,,,I so appreciate that 👍👏❣️

  • @tonicunningham9007
    @tonicunningham9007 2 дня назад

    Why do these emotions manifest through driving? Or, is this just one of the pathways they manifest?

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive День назад

      Forget the why or you'll be lost forever as I explain here ruclips.net/video/n0HUKB_n-o0/видео.htmlsi=3-rGxrgBbSEbhfzG&t=205

  • @adalindamorales4123
    @adalindamorales4123 2 дня назад

    Im just scared of getting lost or being on the wrong lane etc..

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive День назад

      That's because of something bigger, it's not the getting lost you're really scared of at all...

  • @CTH2005
    @CTH2005 7 дней назад

    Thank you🙏🇳🇱

  • @kelechikingsley5515
    @kelechikingsley5515 8 дней назад

    How do you find it and release it.

  • @jessy8656
    @jessy8656 12 дней назад

    I just got into my first car accident a couple of months ago, my car was totaled and ever since then I’ve only driven a handful of times. I have such bad anxiety and fear of other peoples driving, even when im in the passenger seat I am always scared to be in another car accident 😭

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive 11 дней назад

      That can just be because of the obvious reason that you're thinking of the crash when you drive. If that's the case then this video can fix it in 20 minutes ruclips.net/video/zmf0mzDXtU4/видео.html. What often happens though is that experience ties in with other, older problems and more work is needed on those things.

  • @g6g745
    @g6g745 13 дней назад

    You had me at Ghostbusters

  • @leighclift612
    @leighclift612 15 дней назад

    Anxiety is a monster 🐾

  • @meekomania205
    @meekomania205 15 дней назад

    Thank you 🎉

  • @LeonFisher-bs4uj
    @LeonFisher-bs4uj 15 дней назад

    Nice video It does sometime help me understanding my mental health especially driving related

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive 5 дней назад

      It isn't driving related though, that's the point...

  • @mkphillips4501
    @mkphillips4501 16 дней назад

    I’m just now starting to learn to drive because for years I was scared to drive. My mom was the same way

  • @cpt.blackburger4105
    @cpt.blackburger4105 16 дней назад

    Today I failed my test 4 times. I am a good driver I know how to drive, I've been driving for the last 2 years with my partner car. But as soon as I get to DVSA on my driving test day, that's it I completely transform, my brain switches its self and I get nervous, anxious, I get moments zooming out when I'm with the examiner, but if I drive alone or with my partner absolutely perfectly fine and 100% focused. I dont really know what to do..

  • @clairekinney4133
    @clairekinney4133 19 дней назад

    l was in a.car.as a.passenger 18years ago, car went over a round about car was on its side at.140 miles per hour,.l am trying to over come my fears and was.doing.ok then l got freaked out whilst on my lesson now it freaks me out when l have to change gear, please could you give me.any advise on how to overcome this.

  • @bananeneter999
    @bananeneter999 19 дней назад

    Wow beautifully explained. I hope I beat this sh! When I know I only have like 8 miles on the highway I have 0 anxiety. When I have to go a long way I feel trapped. Just mind games..

  • @owenrees7544
    @owenrees7544 20 дней назад

    nice staircase

  • @chrismullan7191
    @chrismullan7191 22 дня назад

    i like your vid, my anxiety is very bad, mostly morning anxiety.

  • @legion162
    @legion162 22 дня назад

    I got a little bit confused at the beginning, I thought it was going to be about CBT (compulsory basic training) for motorbikes 😂😂 Still watched though and found it interesting 👍

    • @Iombardia
      @Iombardia 21 день назад

      There are worse things to mistake that acronym for 🤭

  • @1stdrive
    @1stdrive 23 дня назад

    Like this comment/video if you want to see a video explaining how The Ghostbusters fixed someone's anxiety. It does make sense when you know how 😂

  • @robertcoppola6263
    @robertcoppola6263 23 дня назад

    Bro needs to get out of the road 😂😂

  • @cjfrench5401
    @cjfrench5401 24 дня назад

    I finally passed my test when I was 24, now I’m 26 and I’ve barely drove since. Decided I’m finally going to face it and get my confidence back.

  • @imamyth123
    @imamyth123 27 дней назад

    My drivers ed teacher showed us several crash videos and horrible wreck videos so im constantly scared of wrecks

  • @carolcorrea7482
    @carolcorrea7482 Месяц назад

    Im in my 50's and just now in a situation to where i have to learn how to driveand my husband has been trying to help me to learn how to drive but im having problems turning into the lane and having a hard time controlling the steering wheel also when i am trying to make a left turn i feel like im going into the oncoming lane

  • @CairoCreations
    @CairoCreations Месяц назад

    I’ve lost hope that I will ever be able to drive. I’ve been anxious around cars as long as I can remember- riding in them, or walking on the street next to them. Got in a crash where airbags deployed wall my brother was driving when I was 13 and since then have always flinched and gotten panicky riding in a car. First time I ever actually drove a car I began panicking and crashed into a sign while attempting to turn into a parking lot to switch off with my dad. Airbags went off as well. Flinching and anxiety around cars became and has remained significantly worse since then. My family and myself haven’t trusted me to get behind the wheel of a car since then. I don’t know what to do. I just don’t think I’m built for the modern day to by honest.

  • @Ross-pe8iq
    @Ross-pe8iq Месяц назад

    I have panic attacks with open spaces and bridges while driving or being a passenger. I have panic disorder outside of driving that sometimes acts up. So I had panic attacks in cars while in open spaces so my mind thinks theyre a threat. I literally have never had a fear of driving or open spaces. It's mainly a fear of having a panic while driving which is triggered by open spaces,bridges, and high elevation mountain driving. Which has put me at a disadvantage because I live in a area that has plenty of that type of driving

  • @elizabeth.torres5206
    @elizabeth.torres5206 Месяц назад

    I have anxiety when I got into a bad car accidnet years ago up a hill and i got stuck and couldnt move my car or go anywhere (non drive able) its been 9 yrs since i driven up a hill and i always find an excuse or avoid to do so. Im very traumatized by the accident and would like to slowly trust myself to get over this fear/anxiety.

  • @MatthewChang-rq1bu
    @MatthewChang-rq1bu Месяц назад

    I have really bad anxiety

  • @ehhhh5137
    @ehhhh5137 Месяц назад

    My dad yelled at me so badly it was one of the most traumatic experiences I ever went through I went in excited and confident and now I have major driving anxiety I hate him so much.

  • @1stdrive
    @1stdrive Месяц назад

    What happens if you remove or avoid the trigger? If you avoid driving anxiety by not driving, two things can happen: 1) Your anxiety can move somewhere else. This isn't my theory, it's what hundreds of people I've worked with have told me. Having anxiety is like having pressure inside you and if you don't give it an outlet (like driving) it'll find another way out. Your driving won't be a problem because you're no longer driving but now it may come out when you're a passenger, flying, in busy shops etc. Avoiding the trigger is not a solution. Some people think automatic cars or self-driving cars will help but they won't because driving anxiety has nothing to do with driving and cars. 2) You'll have to give up driving which can cause various issues. You may not be able to take public transport depending on where you live and driving often can't be avoided in some jobs. An electrician isn't going to get the bus carrying all their tools! Giving up driving sometimes brings on a whole new range of problems like feeling a failure, spending more time travelling and having to make excuses as to why you don't drive. I mention this in other videos such as this one ruclips.net/video/ia4I_ISyN8g/видео.htmlsi=UV0QevpTLiSZrt1y&t=365

  • @HH-hx4eb
    @HH-hx4eb Месяц назад

    Thank you sir

  • @Undergroundwrldxo
    @Undergroundwrldxo Месяц назад

    Just got a sports car. Took it to get gas a block away & haven’t touched it since. I’m riding the bus rn LOLLLL

  • @penegakkeadilanpembasmikej5022
    @penegakkeadilanpembasmikej5022 Месяц назад

    My fear and anxiety is road rage people

  • @cecidef1685
    @cecidef1685 Месяц назад

    So good, very good! Still didn't the test butbalteady feeling the inner changes

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive Месяц назад

      That's great. It doesn't guarantee passing a test unfortunately but once you start to make and live with those changes, the things holding you back from passing are reduced/removed and allow you a much better chance.

  • @Unicornucopia3
    @Unicornucopia3 Месяц назад

    What triggered mine was self doubt brought on by a lifetime of untreated ADHD. I had confidence until my parents screamed at me any time I made a mistake. (Not big things like running a stop sign, more like not being perfectly centered in a lane or going too slow.) Then I’d over correct myself and get anxious, which made things worse. I’d follow all the “anti anxiety” tricks but would still be making dumb errors the moment I started to relax and not be anxious. I’m still terrified I’ll zone out from overstimulation and cause an accident or get shot by an aggressive driver because made another unknown error.

    • @batteryacidbabies
      @batteryacidbabies Месяц назад

      I'm going through exactly the same thing. I got diagnosed with autism and adhd when I was 28 (I'm 31 now) and I feel that it affects everything. I constantly second guess myself and find it so hard to focus on everything at the same time. I find it all so stressful that by the time I finish driving I'm absolutely exhausted.

  • @silentfox1738
    @silentfox1738 Месяц назад

    i am a new driver. i believe driving is stressful for me because of lack of solo practice, which has been largely out of my control. the only car i have is a mustang but its old and its a manual. im still learning to drive it, and its the only car ive been able to drive in the past 6 months. when im away at school, i dont need or have a car because school is within walking distance. i dont know what would make me feel confident driving, aside from the practice which ive been unable to get.

  • @heikeconroy8749
    @heikeconroy8749 Месяц назад

    Each one of your fabulous Videos gives me another Tool in my Toolbox to use under Self- Hypnosis,,,,you Sir, are just brilliant,,,,thank you so much Paul,,,,

  • @labaop
    @labaop Месяц назад

    You have helped me so much. Thank you so much for sharing these helpful and relatable videos.

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive Месяц назад

      Thanks, there's quite a big video coming tomorrow which will help even more :-D

    • @labaop
      @labaop Месяц назад

      @@1stdrive I will be on the lookout for it. Again, thank you. You are impacting lives!

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive Месяц назад

      Here it is! ruclips.net/video/PyYO7v9qe4k/видео.htmlsi=UOk71dJvxQDLaCV8

  • @FarhiaMursa
    @FarhiaMursa Месяц назад

    I am suffered anxiety and fear all the type, before someone attacked me, in my home,I used to drive for my car normally M50 or , I was not scared any other speed on the road. But now 😔

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive Месяц назад

      This is why I say driving anxiety has nothing to do with driving. The attack will certainly play a part but there will be other things that came before that which have grown into anxiety.

  • @luckytrolls3237
    @luckytrolls3237 Месяц назад

    love the a30 as u get into cornwall such nice views in the summer

  • @heikeconroy8749
    @heikeconroy8749 Месяц назад

    I was doing so good with the fear of driving ( through watching your Hypnotherapy Videos) for about one year now........but i feel it's slowly creeping back in......which one of your Hypnotherapy Videos would you recommend to reinforce or keep in check my Amigdala( i think i left some loose ends while under Self hypnosis?)

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive Месяц назад

      This one is most likely to help with that ruclips.net/video/A60JLjIUNok/видео.html

  • @CazzleHD
    @CazzleHD 2 месяца назад

    I watched you way back when I first started learning to drive 8 years ago, you've really sparked something regarding anxiety with driving. I got a speeding ticket shortly after I passed doing 34 in a 30 and ever since then I have felt like every speed camera every corner could have a police man waiting to catch me even if I was glued to making sure I was under the limit. Thank you so much for helping me take a step to helping this and I'll watch your most recent videos to get help with this. All the best -C

  • @user-qk6uk4qf9c
    @user-qk6uk4qf9c 2 месяца назад

    My name is Becky from the US. I love your videos. I've come a long wa with my dring. My anxiety started when my dad was dying. I was driving over a bridge when i ha an anxiety attack. My anxiety has gotten better while driving. Baby steps. I want to start with driving over bridges and driving at night. Do you have videos about that?

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive 2 месяца назад

      It often starts with a big change such as a death in the family. I have a playlist on bridges here Fear of driving over bridges: ruclips.net/p/PLz_iw6E6JDFDmWK9BMfgx5CFH9qELa9N3 and one about night time here ruclips.net/p/PLz_iw6E6JDFAogJXoQW8JL1x5wCGnntZJ&si=EQS7Tb2x_VFVdq98

  • @pksheeba
    @pksheeba 2 месяца назад

    @1stdrive I am unable to identify my problem whether it’s an anxiety or phobia . My difficulty is to take the decision of driving once am in the car am ok driving, but I keep avoiding it ! Isn’t it strange ?

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive 2 месяца назад

      Forget the labels, they're all the same thing. What you're talking about would be called procrastination but that is just another label! There isn't always something that needs releasing and when it comes to overthinking, the simple solution (which works) is to get on with it and do it.

    • @pksheeba
      @pksheeba 2 месяца назад

      @@1stdrive thank you so much for your response 🙏

    • @pksheeba
      @pksheeba Месяц назад

      @@1stdrive trusting your words I drove today ! All went well… plan is to drive daily , will update you further! Thank you💐

  • @zainbhussain
    @zainbhussain 2 месяца назад

    I've developed a fear of driving on the motorway. It's been years since I last drove there, despite having tried hypnosis and counseling. I'm still struggling to overcome this fear. I'm comfortable driving on regular roads, but the motorway seems daunting. Any advice or help would be greatly appreciated.

  • @miriambecker7244
    @miriambecker7244 2 месяца назад

    You’re right! I have a tendency to get nervous and talk or drive too fast

  • @clairemonroe369
    @clairemonroe369 2 месяца назад

    I have no fear of driving except for driving down hill because I want to jerk the car to the left. It has to be a long stretch of hill or mountain with more than one lane on my side. like the Sierra Nevadas or the Altamont pass. I have no problem driving down windy roads on a short mountain on a regular two lane road. Also, driving at night gives me anxiety because the road turns into one on dimly lit roads.

  • @charmmorningstar7530
    @charmmorningstar7530 2 месяца назад

    I just went thru this severe fear 5 min ago in DC. I went thru a 10 mile construction zone with concrete barriers on both sides on a very tight road. I had severe anxiety and had to look it up and ended up watching this video. Not a lot of people talk abt it.😢

    • @1stdrive
      @1stdrive 2 месяца назад

      I talk about it all the time on my channel :-D